I'm Tired of Facebook Thinking That I'm Tired of Being Single, Especially When It Knows I'm Not Single!

Facebook, as many people know, is a social networking site for keeping in touch with the people you know, and for sharing things with those people. I've found that it strengthens the weak bonds I've had with people I've met a few times and gotten to know, and has re-united me with people from my past whom I regretted not keeping in touch with. There are still people who haven't joined—I should just send them an email—but for those that have I've found things out about some of them that I really should have known anyway (including a pregnancy) and some I don't want to know much about (relationship details).

Ad in my Facebook feed asking if I'm tired of being single

The above ad sometimes appears in my Facebook News Feed. It's fairly clearly marked as a sponsored ad, and while a little too close to looking like information about my friends for comfort (and why on Earth would I want to share an ad I didn't seek out?), the site has to make a dollar, and they do that through advertising. I see a problem with this, however: why can't the above ad have at least something to do what it knows about me? Facebook seems not to be aware of the fact that I'm in a relationship, something I explicitly told the site! It's a little shocking that here are in 2007 with contextual ads being all the rage and the website that has the most personal in both qualitative and quantitative can't figure out my status. I'm tired of Facebook thinking that I'm tired of being single, especially when it knows I'm not single!

Comments

Maybe Facebook doesn't recognize the validity of our relationship and thinks you need tempting or something. :P

I could open a can of worms and say something like "but then why are there only photos of white girls?", but I won't go there.

Facebook already asks you whether you're interested in men or women - as far as I'm concerned, that's already enough information without getting into laundry lists of preferences!

Boris says, in his del.icio.us bookmarks (which I'm unable to link to individually: I must find a way to convince him to move over to Ma.gnolia): BUT....I actually think sharing ads is great. Good ads should be easily shareable. A good point: I've linked to ads that I thought were really great, which I didn't necessarily seek out. In those cases, though, I stumbled upon them or had them pointed out by fellow bloggers and/or friends. An ad for something not just pointless but kind of shocking with the kind of technology possible, though, really grinds my gears. And yes, I'm aware of the irony/hypocrisy of complaining about not wanting to share an ad while simultaneously posting a screenshot of said ad on my blog, so don't bother pointing it out!

I don't worry when ads are poorly targeted at me. I routinely submit wrong and misleading information when I know it will come back to bite me in the ass, i.e. when it will only be used for advertising. Where do I live? Oh, Nebraska. What are my interests? Oh, muscle cars, marathon running and horseback riding. Yeah, show me those ads please, they'll be easy to ignore.